Increase Ministry Giving.
Deliver clear and compelling giving moments that inspire generosity and fund your vision.
As economic shifts impact generosity, a clear and compelling giving moment is no longer optional—it is essential.
The ClearToGive program equips your team with a proven communication framework to increase ministry giving with clarity, confidence, grace, and honor.
Watch The Free Training
In Less Than 15 minutes, Learn 5 Common Phrases That Hinder Generosity (And What To Say Instead).
This is only the beginning. Now equip your leadership team with the complete training.
When the offering moment feels rushed, awkward, or unclear, it creates a barrier to giving that hinders your ability to fund the vision.
The ClearToGive program equips your team to eliminate this friction and deliver a message that consistently increases ministry giving.
How It Works.
ClearToGive is a simple-to-follow, proven communication framework for ministry leaders. It is designed to equip your team to eliminate Generosity Friction Points and deliver a clear, compelling message—transforming the offering from an awkward transaction into a powerful moment of worship that increases ministry giving.
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Equip yourself and your team with the ClearToGive Framework.
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Increase ministry giving and fund your vision with clear, compelling communication.
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Economic uncertainty makes people cautious, but an unclear giving moment ensures a decline in generosity.
The ClearToGive Framework equips you with simple steps to make your communication clear, graceful, and effective.
Reserve Your Training Experience.
Equip yourself, your leaders, and your team with the ClearToGive Framework. Learn clear, graceful communication strategies that transform your giving moments, increase ministry giving, and fund your vision.
Virtual Open Group Training For 1
$395
Equip yourself in an open group.
Join an open group. Participate in a LIVE, 2.5-hour virtual training to learn the ClearToGive communication framework and get your questions answered in an interactive group setting.
✓ Open Cohort Access for 1 Participant
✓ The ClearToGive Communication Framework
✓Generosity Friction Points
✓Generosity Vocabulary
✓Generosity Dynamics
✓ Vocal Delivery & Tone
✓ Stage Presence & Etiquette
✓ General Implementation Guide
✓ Replay Access for 90 Days
✓ Flexible Payment Options
Next Training: December 18, 2025
12:00 PM CT
1:00 PM ET
7:00 PM WAT
Virtual Private Group Training For 3
$995
Equip Your Team of 3 Privately
Reserve a LIVE, 2.5-hour virtual training to equip your team with the ClearToGive communication framework and address specific, tailored questions in an interactive private group.
✓ Private Group Training for Your Team of 3 Participants
✓ The ClearToGive Communication Framework
✓Generosity Friction Points
✓Generosity Vocabulary
✓Generosity Dynamics
✓ Vocal Delivery & Tone
✓ Stage Presence & Etiquette
✓ Tailored Implementation Guide
✓ Replay Access for 90 Days
✓ Flexible Payment Options
Once your payment is received, please wait for an email with the steps to schedule your private session.
Virtual Private Group Training For 6
$1995
Equip Your Team of 6 Privately
A live, 2.5-hour virtual training to equip your team with the ClearToGive communication framework and answer specific, tailored questions in an interactive private group.
✓ Private Group Training for Your Team of 6 Participants
✓ The ClearToGive Communication Framework
✓Generosity Friction Points
✓Generosity Vocabulary
✓Generosity Dynamics
✓ Vocal Delivery & Tone
✓ Stage Presence & Etiquette
✓ Tailored Implementation Guide
✓ Replay Access for 90 Days
✓ Flexible Payment Options
You’ll receive an email with the steps to schedule your session after you register.
Do you prefer a self-study?
Virtual Private Group Training For 12
$2995
Equip Your Team of 12 Privately
A live, 2.5-hour virtual training to equip your team with the ClearToGive communication framework and answer specific, tailored questions in an interactive private group.
✓ Private Group Training for Your Team of 12 Participants
✓ The ClearToGive Communication Framework
✓Generosity Friction Points
✓Generosity Vocabulary
✓Generosity Dynamics
✓ Vocal Delivery & Tone
✓ Stage Presence & Etiquette
✓ Tailored Implementation Guide
✓ Replay Access for 90 Days
✓ Flexible Payment Options
Virtual Private Group Training For 24
$5995
Equip Your Team of 24 Privately
A live, 2.5-hour virtual training to equip your team with the ClearToGive communication framework and answer specific, tailored questions in an interactive private group.
✓ Private Cohort Access for 24 Participants, Your Team Only
✓ The ClearToGive Communication Framework
✓Generosity Friction Points
✓Generosity Vocabulary
✓Generosity Dynamics
✓ Vocal Delivery & Tone
✓ Stage Presence & Etiquette
✓ Tailored Feedback & Implementation Guide
✓ Replay Access for 90 Days
✓ Flexible Payment Options
Onsite Private Training
$9950+
Equip Your Large Group On-Site
The complete, on-site, tailored experience, with a service audit and hands-on training to help your team fully integrate the ClearToGive communication framework into your ministry's culture, all at your location.
✓ Private In-Person Access for Your Large Team Only
✓ The ClearToGive Communication Framework
✓Generosity Friction Points
✓Generosity Vocabulary
✓Generosity Dynamics
✓ Vocal Delivery & Tone
✓ Stage Presence & Etiquette
✓ Tailored Feedback & Implementation Guide
✓ Realtime Roleplay & Practice
✓ Flexible Payment Options
+ Travel & Lodging
“People give when values align, faith connects, and the message is clear and compelling. LADY VJ helps you communicate in a way that reaches people’s hearts. She makes the message simple, strong, and impossible to miss.”
Dr. Harry Akinola, Pastor
Meet Your Guide
Vivian J’ade (LADY VJ)
My personal mission as your guide is deeply inspired by the model of gospel partnership in Luke 8:1-3 (NLT). Scripture records that certain women were "contributing from their own resources to support Jesus and his disciples."
I consider my unique, God-given expertise in communication and strategy a valuable resource God has given me for the benefit of the Church.
My mission is to follow that same biblical model to contribute my resources to support the senior pastors and ministry leaders who, like Jesus, are "preaching and announcing the Good News about the Kingdom of God.”
My Experience
This mission is what fuels my professional work. I am an internationally recognized expert in strategic communication and a proven leader. In the marketplace, I am the founder of Pelworth, The Modern Etiquette & Finishing School, and NOTIQ, a global brand I have had the privilege of building from the ground up. This unique background as a founder and a communication expert gives me firsthand experience in what it takes to cast a vision, build a strategy, and mobilize people to action.
However, my heart is in the growth of the church. With over 25 years of faithful service in my local church, submitting to my senior pastors and as a partner to several ministries, I have observed firsthand a common, widespread challenge: for many leaders, discussing giving is the most stressful aspect of ministry, and often the "giving" moment can feel rushed, unclear or awkward, ultimately hindering a ministry's vision and stability.
As a speaker and trainer, my goal is to help you overcome this challenge and bridge the gap. I provide the tools to communicate your giving vision with clarity, confidence, grace, and honor.
My heart is to help pastors and ministry leaders implement proven principles of excellence in communication to turn their congregation's giving time from an awkward transaction into a powerful moment of inspiration, worship, and growth.
FAQs.
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The ClearToGive program is a simple-to-follow, proven communication framework for ministry leaders built on the principles of grace, clarity, and confidence.
It’s not a set of fundraising tactics; it's designed to equip you and your team to turn awkward giving moments into powerful, inspiring acts of worship and growth.
The entire program is anchored and inspired by the Apostle Paul's model of providing clear communication for giving (1 Corinthians 16 & 2 Corinthians 8-9). Our mission is to help you bring clarity to your giving moment, restoring it to the joyful and honorable place it holds in Scripture.
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The ClearToGive framework is a simple-to-follow, proven communication framework for ministry leaders built on the principles of grace, clarity, and confidence. It’s not a set of fundraising tactics; it's designed to equip you and your team to turn awkward giving moments into powerful, inspiring acts of worship and growth.
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Thank you for asking this. This question is at the very core of our mission.
The ClearToGive framework is designed to serve and support the Senior Pastor's vision, never to replace it.
This is not an "authority" program; it is a "support" program.
My entire 25+ years of faithful ministry service have been in that exact role: as a support team member, on communications and events teams, coming alongside the senior pastors I have served to help execute their vision with excellence.
My goal is not to tell you what to preach. My mission is to use my unique, God-given expertise in communication and guest experience to provide you and your team with proven principles to lead with greater clarity, confidence, and grace.
I am here to be your experienced and supportive partner, equipping your team so you can lead this moment more effectively.
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Not at all. This is our primary commitment. Our framework is the antidote to "salesy" tactics. It is built on the principles of honor, grace, and authentic connection. It's not about pressuring people; it's about inspiring them by clearly and gracefully communicating the vision they already want to be a part of.
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This program is for the entire team that shapes your ministry's communication. This includes:
Senior Pastors
Ministry Leaders
Elders, Deacons, and Board Members
Media & Communication Teams
Worship Leaders & Service Hosts
Usher & Offering Volunteer Teams
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Yes. This framework is about clarity, not complexity. The principles of graceful, clear communication work just as powerfully for a church of 50 as they do for a church of 5,000. In fact, small churches often see the fastest results because they are so agile and can implement these simple shifts immediately.
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This is a compassionate and common concern. This program is the perfect way to honor and equip that volunteer. You can frame this as a leadership development opportunity for the whole team. It gives you an objective, professional resource to empower them with confidence and new skills, turning their faithfulness into even greater effectiveness without any awkward personal criticism.
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It's simple. Immediately after your purchase, you will receive an email with a secure link to create your private login. You will get instant, lifetime access to all the video modules and downloadable resources (like the scripts and checklists), so you can start learning at your own pace.
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It's all about the level of access and customization you need:
The On-Demand Course is a self-study program. You get the full framework to learn at your own pace.
The Private Virtual Workshop is a live, online session for your team. We'll apply the framework directly to your specific questions.
The Custom In-Person Experience is our most hands-on, holistic option. I come to you, audit your service, and personally train your entire team to integrate the framework into your culture.
